Friends or lovers

So guys what would your choice be:
1) To spend more time with your lover and neglect your friends
2) Always accept your friends invitations and bring your lover with you
3) Hang out with your friends half the time then the other time be with your lover

We hear often "bros before hoes", "chicks before dicks", "mates before dates"
But do people actually listen to that? In my opinion I think not, most people always choose their lovers before their friends
But what happens if you continuously do that? You will have your friends forever but you wouldn't have that relationship forever
So those who choose their bf/gf over their friends all the time, rejecting all invitations to hang out
Becoming social, neglecting their friends, have no time for their friends are making big mistakes.
What if something happened to your relationship? And you already lost your friends because of how much time you
Had spent in your relationship, then you would have no one and because most of your time spent with your lover
You also risk losing your family because of you not spending more time with them.

So I suggest that people who do that should stop and start halving the time with your relationship and your friends therefore you have both