Being overprotective

So what happens when someone is overprotective of others?
They leave those being protected without space
They push their friends away
They push their family away
They get angry easily
They get moody easily

Being overprotective of your lover is of course ok and it is great
But what happens when you just go over the edge?
Your relationship may end up splitting for not giving then enough space
They can take care of themselves as they are just as
Mature as you are.
Bing overprotective over a friend/best friend is quite similar, we all want
Our friends to be safe, when you call them to have an answer, see them the
Next day, hang out with them knowing that they are okay.
But again what happens if you go too far that you choose
The decision for them when they did not ask or your opinion?
Or that you control them and tell them that they can't go or even
Telling them that "if you do the thing that I told you not, our friendship is over"
"I will hate you forever" what is this?
Seriously that's just not fair, it's not their decision to do the things you want to
It's always your choice, you have the rights to do whatever you want
To know that you will be their for them whatever happens
Consequences or not, as thats what a true friend does of course maybe you would be
A little bit cranky, upset, pissed off that your friend did not listen to you and suffer the consequences
But at least you should be kind enough to let them have their own decision. If you worry about them
Doing wreckless things such as drugs, binge drinking, suicide than you would call the police, tell your parents
Other close Friends of them, counselor.
But all of us can be independent at sometimes and doesn't need someone to monitor them every hour
That's just too much, not only will they begin to feel annoyed about it but your friendship might break