I hear the birds chirping
Knowing that you were there
Listening to them singing
It was very rare

You sing to the notes they were singing to
It sounded wonderful and lovely
But for who was this to?

Being overprotective

So what happens when someone is overprotective of others?
They leave those being protected without space
They push their friends away
They push their family away
They get angry easily
They get moody easily

Being overprotective of your lover is of course ok and it is great
But what happens when you just go over the edge?
Your relationship may end up splitting for not giving then enough space
They can take care of themselves as they are just as
Mature as you are.
Bing overprotective over a friend/best friend is quite similar, we all want
Our friends to be safe, when you call them to have an answer, see them the
Next day, hang out with them knowing that they are okay.
But again what happens if you go too far that you choose
The decision for them when they did not ask or your opinion?
Or that you control them and tell them that they can't go or even
Telling them that "if you do the thing that I told you not, our friendship is over"
"I will hate you forever" what is this?
Seriously that's just not fair, it's not their decision to do the things you want to
It's always your choice, you have the rights to do whatever you want
To know that you will be their for them whatever happens
Consequences or not, as thats what a true friend does of course maybe you would be
A little bit cranky, upset, pissed off that your friend did not listen to you and suffer the consequences
But at least you should be kind enough to let them have their own decision. If you worry about them
Doing wreckless things such as drugs, binge drinking, suicide than you would call the police, tell your parents
Other close Friends of them, counselor.
But all of us can be independent at sometimes and doesn't need someone to monitor them every hour
That's just too much, not only will they begin to feel annoyed about it but your friendship might break

Friends or lovers

So guys what would your choice be:
1) To spend more time with your lover and neglect your friends
2) Always accept your friends invitations and bring your lover with you
3) Hang out with your friends half the time then the other time be with your lover

We hear often "bros before hoes", "chicks before dicks", "mates before dates"
But do people actually listen to that? In my opinion I think not, most people always choose their lovers before their friends
But what happens if you continuously do that? You will have your friends forever but you wouldn't have that relationship forever
So those who choose their bf/gf over their friends all the time, rejecting all invitations to hang out
Becoming social, neglecting their friends, have no time for their friends are making big mistakes.
What if something happened to your relationship? And you already lost your friends because of how much time you
Had spent in your relationship, then you would have no one and because most of your time spent with your lover
You also risk losing your family because of you not spending more time with them.

So I suggest that people who do that should stop and start halving the time with your relationship and your friends therefore you have both

A one two three

My heart sinks when your not here
You leave me alone in raging fear
You ignite it like a lighted fire
Your the one my heart desires

I count the beats that go one two three
When the moon casts a shadow over me
You wake up to the bright yellow sunlight
Whilst I sleep in the dark starry night

Your voice projects from one end to the other
Shouting from here "damn you brother"
Locking the doors he goes out
Picnicing alone on the round about

It beats again a one two three
Only because your sitting with me
Damn it hurts a tingeling ling
I love you so my dear darling

Tips...

1) Everyone will find someone that will be right for them, there is no such thing as being alone forever unless you desperetly seek for no one, but maybe they will seek you.

2) We all have the rights to reject someone, if they have a bad personality,have bad habits, but you don't have the rights to discriminate others because of their race, looks, age, gender, religion or culture.

3) To be in a great relationship, first thing you must do is to respect them, be honest and never lie

4) If you have difficulty in maintaining your relationship, talk to a friend who will understand your problem and they could possibly help you or you may try fix it yourself if it is because you work too long, or your partner doesn't spend too much time with you, or leaving you enough space, pressuring you etc their is a 90% chance of a relationship to be mended. Just improve on the things you lack or they lack and COMMUNICATE & talk to each more OFTEN

5) To love someone you must experience hate, to hate someone you must learn love this is because when you love someone its not always going to be all good, sometimes you will fight and then you say " I hate you" blah blah.... but that isn't true because in the end you still have feelings for one another. Hating someone hurts you more than love can, because that guilt of hating someone and the uncomforting feeling in you just eats you inside out. HATE is a huge word to say for only four letters so is LOVE, they both are opposites to each other and we usually hear the line "opposites attract" like north and south poles of a magnet this is like love and hate being attracted to each other. Having to hate someone your whole life especially an opposite sex one day that would turn into love or like because opposites attract.

6) Pour out your emotional feelings as it will increase your mental and emotional health
7) Be happy for someone who is in a commited relationship it will just make your chances of having one higher.
8) Love someone for who they are and not just their appearance or title, thats not fair. Imagine them doing it to you, you wouldn't feel good. DON'T USE PEOPLE

Daylight Savings End

Hey guys, so daylight savings end meaning that their is practically more night things to do now :)

Longer: Dinner dates for one
Time together
Moments
Fun

Doing things at night is more fun than things in the mornning with a loved one or friend. City lights are beautiful, the surroundings are great (hopefully) and the events that go on at night are just fabulous.

Always go on a date during the night its more spectacular that way and if your in Sydney every fortnight or something darling harbour Cockle Bay has fireworks displays where bars and restraunts are right in front of it. Great view!! Great dinning too.

Well have fun with the four months of longer darkness :)

Perfection

Your new to me
Yet it seems like i've known you before
Does your heart beat?
When you see me around even more
Do you feel the connection?
That draws us in together
Even though I adore your affection
Nothing else you need to do has to be better
I know your sweet smile is at its perfection
but don't you hold any defaults on you?
Not even one small section?
Because my love for you, is only for you
Nothing else, no one else
But you